My only point was that this clearly has not stopped him from moving on from these events and taking responsibility for himself. And neither have I. It seems that you narrowly define manhood as those who suppress their emotions and have a “whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” attitude. And yet you decided to share you own sob story. I’m certainly not concerned about your definition of being a lonely man. As long as I’m moving forward and taking care of my family I’ll never be afraid to express to others that their actions can hurt people, especially children, and they should be aware of that.