I think you’re missing the point, as well as exemplifying part of the problem. Too often White people can’t have conversations about race without making it all about themselves. They want their point of view to take precedence. They want their feelings to have priority. And they want their burden to be perceived as greater than anyone else’s. And minorities frankly have had enough of that. Your views and opinions are quite clear to everyone. It dominates our history, our economy, our entertainment, and our laws. Take some time to listen and empathize without the expectation that you must absolutely must be heard before you can genuinely engage.