I see.

So it's MY unrecognized racism that causes me to be annoyed at situations where people constantly, not occasionally, but constantly remind me that my hair is different.

It's MY unrecognized racism that causes me to be annoyed when random White people come up and touch my son's hair because they're so fascinated that they act like they're petting a dog.

And finally, it's MY unrecognized racism that causes me to be annoyed with some idiot online who can't be bothered to even try to understand someone else's grievances.

You can peddle your enlightened nonsense elsewhere. I'd heard it before. Way too many times to not be annoyed.