And from my point of view it’s just a bunch of White people crying because they don’t want to really learn about our painful past because it challenges their status in our society. So who’s viewpoint is more valid? And why?

No one should feel guilty for something they had no part in. So why are so many White people hurt by this? I don’t think there’s a presumption of guilt (certainly not through the lens of being a Black man in America) but rather a presumption of willful ignorance.